All the cultures of the world promote family life. A family is the most important demographic unit from more than one aspect. The culture and society of a nation is very much affected by the way the families live in that country. Family life is important. People become what they become because of what the family life teaches them. A family unit is capable of teaching a mortal more than any other group of people in his life.
There are certain steps which should be taken to ensure the stability of relations and stronger ties among the members of a family. You should refrain all such practices which can create problems in your family life. In a family the kids live with their parents. The parents are two adults who are bound to apiece other by a legally recognized relationship.
They may have biological children of their own or they may adopt kids from other people. Most often than not the people of a family share their surname with apiece other. They live at a common place and share most parts of their lives. There is no doubt about it that the family unit is the most important unit from the point of view of demography. It is a very important social and cultural concept. The way family members behave with apiece other affects the way a culture or a society flourishes. All these factors lead us to the conclusion that family unit is a very important unit. We must keep on assessing ourselves as to whether we are healthy to wage our share of responsibility in making our family a happier one or not. We also should assess our family members and talk to them about making the family ties even stronger. We must create understanding between the members of the family. If the people belonging to a family understand apiece other, the ties of the family will automatically be stronger.
Building a home is important. To build a home you need to do certain activities. If you want to improve the calibre of family life you are spending you have to pay all due attention towards these things. These steps are minor steps, but these steps result in a much better level of understanding between the members of a family, and as a result the family becomes more strongly tied to apiece other.
If you want to become closer to your family you must know and learn to create a usage of intake together. It is obvious that all the members of the family cannot be there to take together at the times of all meals. But what you can do is to make a usage of having dinner together with your family. In this way you will be healthy to spend time with your family and that will improve the situation. Similarly, it can be really helpful if you can have vacations together. Those parents who go for vacations with their kids along usually find it easier to deal with their kids during the regular grind. The experience the kids get by traveling and pass brings them closer to their parents.
The actual purpose of doing all these things is to spend time together. If you spend more time with your family members you will be healthy to create a better level of understanding with them.
Mittwoch, 28. Januar 2009
Mittwoch, 21. Januar 2009
Assess Yourself As A Family Member
Family life is a very important part of any one’s life. People generally consider their families to be the group of most important persons in their lives. It is common to all cultures and societies. All the cultures of the world profess family unit strength. As the family unit is a very important unit in the life of any human being, it is important that everyone considers him or herself responsible towards building a home and a nice family life. Your family members are the people you can look towards in the hour of need. These are the people who can be very helpful to you in regard to any and everything that has gone wrong in your life.
As family members are very important and family life and strong ties with your family members are an asset, it is important that everyone gives the family life its due importance. It is important that we continue with our traditions of having a close family. Family life has ensured stability and peacefulness in society which nothing else can provide. Family life is important and it is the primary responsibility of everyone to play his or her role in making their family life work. Everyone needs to contribute towards family life as the strength of a family unit is going to help every one.
As a family member you must assess yourself very frequently. As your family is one of the families we want to protect, you must pay full attention towards your family. First of all you must critically think about your behavior towards other family members. Are you encouraging enough? Do you tell your family members enough times that you love them? And that you are a part of them? These are the points you must consider. Assess your self and try to improve yourself if you think you demand in something as a member of the family who is responsible for creating the closeness and love between the members of the family.
Also, you must think about how much time you are spending with your family. Sometimes we love the members of our family very much but we are not healthy to resolve the issues which arise between the other members of the family and us, as we are not spending enough time with the other members of our family. This is something very important. If you want your family to be a happy family, you need to spend some time together. Even if you are busy otherwise, you must try to spend at least some time with the members of your family.
Celebrating little events in life may sometimes become even more important as compared to celebrating some huge events. For example, to your brother it may be more important that you remember his birthday and wish him a happy birthday at midnight as compared to taking him and his friends to a lavish dinner. You must not waste any such chance. Consider yourself as a family member, and critically look at apiece aspect. You will come to know what you should add in your personality to become even more effective as a member of your family to make the ties even stronger.
Family is very important to all of us. It is our responsibility to play the role which nature has given us. We can help in strengthening our family ties. We should try to do that as much as we possibly can.
As family members are very important and family life and strong ties with your family members are an asset, it is important that everyone gives the family life its due importance. It is important that we continue with our traditions of having a close family. Family life has ensured stability and peacefulness in society which nothing else can provide. Family life is important and it is the primary responsibility of everyone to play his or her role in making their family life work. Everyone needs to contribute towards family life as the strength of a family unit is going to help every one.
As a family member you must assess yourself very frequently. As your family is one of the families we want to protect, you must pay full attention towards your family. First of all you must critically think about your behavior towards other family members. Are you encouraging enough? Do you tell your family members enough times that you love them? And that you are a part of them? These are the points you must consider. Assess your self and try to improve yourself if you think you demand in something as a member of the family who is responsible for creating the closeness and love between the members of the family.
Also, you must think about how much time you are spending with your family. Sometimes we love the members of our family very much but we are not healthy to resolve the issues which arise between the other members of the family and us, as we are not spending enough time with the other members of our family. This is something very important. If you want your family to be a happy family, you need to spend some time together. Even if you are busy otherwise, you must try to spend at least some time with the members of your family.
Celebrating little events in life may sometimes become even more important as compared to celebrating some huge events. For example, to your brother it may be more important that you remember his birthday and wish him a happy birthday at midnight as compared to taking him and his friends to a lavish dinner. You must not waste any such chance. Consider yourself as a family member, and critically look at apiece aspect. You will come to know what you should add in your personality to become even more effective as a member of your family to make the ties even stronger.
Family is very important to all of us. It is our responsibility to play the role which nature has given us. We can help in strengthening our family ties. We should try to do that as much as we possibly can.
Freitag, 16. Januar 2009
Assessing Your Family Members
What does your family mean to you? If you ask this question to ten different people you will get ten distinctly different answers to this question. To some people their family may be simply the people to whom they are related by blood but nothing more than that. They do not feel the strength of the ties which many others may feel for the members of their families. There are people to whom their family is more than friends and relatives and colleagues. They are very close to their family and feel as if their family members are the world to them. These people are very close to all the other members of their family. Another answer to your question may be that the experience with the family is something people must not have.
Such answers can be expected from people who belong to broken families. The kids whose parents are very strict and who beat them may be very scared and simply refuse to answer your question.
Although the family life means different things to different people in this world, psychologists are sure that the way a family behaves and the way people behave with their family members are the factors that shape the personality of that human being. Thus the unit of a family is very important. It is your duty to ensure that your family life is protected. It also is the duty of your fellow family members to pay all due attention to the family life. You must assess yourself as a family member to decide whether you are paying due attention towards your responsibilities or not. Similarly, you should assess the other members of your family and talk to them about what you think is the right way to make the family life even fuller of life and zest.
Assessing your family members does not mean to become a critic. The fact is that all of the members of the family should contribute towards a very happy family life. You must only consider those points which are affecting the family life as a whole. For example, your sister may have a usage of reading your dairies or letters with out permission. Now this may be done in good spirit, but that may hurt the privacy limits of another sibling. This may create problems. In this situation you must talk to your sister and tell her that her usage is hurting someone. To retain the close ties in the family everyone should learn to give enough space to others.
The most important fact is that you not only need to assess them but you also need to talk to them about it. If the habits of one of the family members are disturbing the others, he has to be told about it. But you have to ensure that you do all the critical work without making him or her feel bad. The actual target is to retain the strong ties of the family unit there. It is not to hurt someone or criticize someone. You must assess the other family members and ask them to fulfill their responsibility, but you must not do it in harsh tone. It is very important that you learn this trick. It is not the solution that you do not talk to your family members about the habits they should change.
You have to tell them if some thing is going wrong and you want them not to behave in one particular way. Do it in a manner which looks good. Do not offend the others.
Such answers can be expected from people who belong to broken families. The kids whose parents are very strict and who beat them may be very scared and simply refuse to answer your question.
Although the family life means different things to different people in this world, psychologists are sure that the way a family behaves and the way people behave with their family members are the factors that shape the personality of that human being. Thus the unit of a family is very important. It is your duty to ensure that your family life is protected. It also is the duty of your fellow family members to pay all due attention to the family life. You must assess yourself as a family member to decide whether you are paying due attention towards your responsibilities or not. Similarly, you should assess the other members of your family and talk to them about what you think is the right way to make the family life even fuller of life and zest.
Assessing your family members does not mean to become a critic. The fact is that all of the members of the family should contribute towards a very happy family life. You must only consider those points which are affecting the family life as a whole. For example, your sister may have a usage of reading your dairies or letters with out permission. Now this may be done in good spirit, but that may hurt the privacy limits of another sibling. This may create problems. In this situation you must talk to your sister and tell her that her usage is hurting someone. To retain the close ties in the family everyone should learn to give enough space to others.
The most important fact is that you not only need to assess them but you also need to talk to them about it. If the habits of one of the family members are disturbing the others, he has to be told about it. But you have to ensure that you do all the critical work without making him or her feel bad. The actual target is to retain the strong ties of the family unit there. It is not to hurt someone or criticize someone. You must assess the other family members and ask them to fulfill their responsibility, but you must not do it in harsh tone. It is very important that you learn this trick. It is not the solution that you do not talk to your family members about the habits they should change.
You have to tell them if some thing is going wrong and you want them not to behave in one particular way. Do it in a manner which looks good. Do not offend the others.
Are Traditional Family Units Still There
People who live in the same house and normally are related to apiece other through blood, marriage, or adoption are called a family. Different encyclopedias and dictionaries define a family in different words. To many a family unit consists of two adults of opposite sex who are related to apiece other in a socially acceptable relationship.
They may have kids. These kids and their parents constitute a family. In different parts of the world, different types of family structures exist. There exists a type of family in which a father and a mother raise their children. There is also another kind of family in which a male can have more than one wife in addition to kids. In some parts of Africa there are families with one female who has more than one husband. Thus the structure of the family unit is very much dependent upon the culture. Most of the cultures in this world promote family life. The family ties are healthy to shape the personality of a person, so they are very important. Keeping this importance in view, all cultures promote it. The presence of a family unit in the country confirms that there will be peace and harmony in the country. One more advantage of having a family unit in your culture is that people are responsible towards apiece other. Thus family life makes a mortal learn to be responsible for her or his actions.
These blood ties are important as they are helpful in shaping a personality. Although people understand the importance of a family unit, the trend of living as a family is decreasing. In many parts of the world people leave their parents and start living separately as soon as they complete their education and are healthy to acquire their own living. In one sense this trend is very positive as everyone is responsible for his or herself. People acquire for themselves and as a result, the number of dependents is less in such countries. The obvious result is that the economy of the country is stable. But the loosening ties have their disadvantages as well. Due to the demand of these ties there is a disruption in the society. We do not experience that peace all around the globe today as it existed few decades back. The reason is that the family unit is becoming less important to many people.
The decrease in the life span of a family unit is because of the fact that kids get their education and leave their parents to find work, and spouses lead their own life. There are many other reasons as well. There are many broken families now because the divorce rate is on a rise. The reason for this may be the unstable economic conditions or, a higher number of kids than a couple can afford to have.
There are other social evils which are resulting in a demand of families and family ties for many kids. For example, there are many illegitimate children born every year. Now as these kids are born out of wedlock there are not many people who accept them. A huge percentage of such kids are place for adoption. This is something we must discourage. The parents should be responsible enough if they want to have kids even if out of wedlock. If they don’t want that, contraceptives are always there. But it is cruel to have a child and then to leave him or her at the mercy of people. There are certain other evils in our societies which are creating problems for us as these things are decreasing the importance of family unit in the world of today.
On the other hand, in many parts of the world the family unit is as much there as it was a few decades back. Sometimes the rigidity of these ties creates problems. The people who are bound to apiece other by blood ties in this situation do not give the other mortal enough space to breathe. This creates suffocation for people and the strength of a family unit starts disintegrating. Family units are still there but they have changed their shape according to the present day requirements.
They may have kids. These kids and their parents constitute a family. In different parts of the world, different types of family structures exist. There exists a type of family in which a father and a mother raise their children. There is also another kind of family in which a male can have more than one wife in addition to kids. In some parts of Africa there are families with one female who has more than one husband. Thus the structure of the family unit is very much dependent upon the culture. Most of the cultures in this world promote family life. The family ties are healthy to shape the personality of a person, so they are very important. Keeping this importance in view, all cultures promote it. The presence of a family unit in the country confirms that there will be peace and harmony in the country. One more advantage of having a family unit in your culture is that people are responsible towards apiece other. Thus family life makes a mortal learn to be responsible for her or his actions.
These blood ties are important as they are helpful in shaping a personality. Although people understand the importance of a family unit, the trend of living as a family is decreasing. In many parts of the world people leave their parents and start living separately as soon as they complete their education and are healthy to acquire their own living. In one sense this trend is very positive as everyone is responsible for his or herself. People acquire for themselves and as a result, the number of dependents is less in such countries. The obvious result is that the economy of the country is stable. But the loosening ties have their disadvantages as well. Due to the demand of these ties there is a disruption in the society. We do not experience that peace all around the globe today as it existed few decades back. The reason is that the family unit is becoming less important to many people.
The decrease in the life span of a family unit is because of the fact that kids get their education and leave their parents to find work, and spouses lead their own life. There are many other reasons as well. There are many broken families now because the divorce rate is on a rise. The reason for this may be the unstable economic conditions or, a higher number of kids than a couple can afford to have.
There are other social evils which are resulting in a demand of families and family ties for many kids. For example, there are many illegitimate children born every year. Now as these kids are born out of wedlock there are not many people who accept them. A huge percentage of such kids are place for adoption. This is something we must discourage. The parents should be responsible enough if they want to have kids even if out of wedlock. If they don’t want that, contraceptives are always there. But it is cruel to have a child and then to leave him or her at the mercy of people. There are certain other evils in our societies which are creating problems for us as these things are decreasing the importance of family unit in the world of today.
On the other hand, in many parts of the world the family unit is as much there as it was a few decades back. Sometimes the rigidity of these ties creates problems. The people who are bound to apiece other by blood ties in this situation do not give the other mortal enough space to breathe. This creates suffocation for people and the strength of a family unit starts disintegrating. Family units are still there but they have changed their shape according to the present day requirements.
Adjusting To Elderly Parents
Parents do an amazing amount of work for their children to ensure that they grow up to be healthy and well-balanced individuals. As one makes the transition into adulthood, they begin to realize the extent that their parents worked, as well as how they can finally have the opportunity to give back.
There are certain things you should do to improve the calibre of life you have as a family. There are many practices you should refrain in order to become more useful for your family by bringing all the members of the family closer. Parenting is a full time responsibility. When you have kids you have lots of responsibilities which you are supposed to complete. If you have parents who are of old age but they still are alive, living with them in the same house may become a problem for some people. We must understand how we can adjust to our parents if they are old and we still live together.
In different parts of the world there are different trends. In some parts of the world the kids live with their parents and the paternal family of the kids. In this situation the kids are generally used to having their grandparents around. On the other hand in some cultures the kids leave the house of their parents when they become healthy to acquire for themselves. Now these people are not used to having their parents around all the time. When your parents grow old, it is your responsibility to give them all the love and care that they gave you when you were young. These are the people who have loved you selflessly. They always knew that you will leave them in quest of a career and a spouse, but they still loved you unconditionally.
When the parents are old it is the responsibility of the children to take care of them. Sending your parents to a nursing home just because they have grown old is not the solution. People must learn to respect the old age of their parents. The old people should be given all the due respect and importance and above all, their children must spend time with their old parents. Now that the parents have grown old they are not any more in the position to do simple things for themselves. You must learn to be there for them. They have listened to all your demands when you were young and they have provided for you all your life before you started earning for yourself. You must now pay them back in the same currency, love. Give them all due importance. Give them your time.
Generally the kids are very close to their grandparents. The grandparents are loving for them. They have more time for them. Thus the kids feel more comfortable with their grandparents. This is very healthy. The family ties become stronger in this way.
One should learn to be patient with their parents when they grow old. The parents in old age may sometime act unreasonably and they may not be reasonable and understanding. It now is the duty of the children to be patient and bear everything. This is the right we should give to our parents, as long as it is within our realm of capability.
There are certain things you should do to improve the calibre of life you have as a family. There are many practices you should refrain in order to become more useful for your family by bringing all the members of the family closer. Parenting is a full time responsibility. When you have kids you have lots of responsibilities which you are supposed to complete. If you have parents who are of old age but they still are alive, living with them in the same house may become a problem for some people. We must understand how we can adjust to our parents if they are old and we still live together.
In different parts of the world there are different trends. In some parts of the world the kids live with their parents and the paternal family of the kids. In this situation the kids are generally used to having their grandparents around. On the other hand in some cultures the kids leave the house of their parents when they become healthy to acquire for themselves. Now these people are not used to having their parents around all the time. When your parents grow old, it is your responsibility to give them all the love and care that they gave you when you were young. These are the people who have loved you selflessly. They always knew that you will leave them in quest of a career and a spouse, but they still loved you unconditionally.
When the parents are old it is the responsibility of the children to take care of them. Sending your parents to a nursing home just because they have grown old is not the solution. People must learn to respect the old age of their parents. The old people should be given all the due respect and importance and above all, their children must spend time with their old parents. Now that the parents have grown old they are not any more in the position to do simple things for themselves. You must learn to be there for them. They have listened to all your demands when you were young and they have provided for you all your life before you started earning for yourself. You must now pay them back in the same currency, love. Give them all due importance. Give them your time.
Generally the kids are very close to their grandparents. The grandparents are loving for them. They have more time for them. Thus the kids feel more comfortable with their grandparents. This is very healthy. The family ties become stronger in this way.
One should learn to be patient with their parents when they grow old. The parents in old age may sometime act unreasonably and they may not be reasonable and understanding. It now is the duty of the children to be patient and bear everything. This is the right we should give to our parents, as long as it is within our realm of capability.
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